A Million Little Paths

People often ask me how I got published, and how they, too, can get their first book written and published.

I get this question a lot now. I suppose with five poetry books, three novels, a few children’s books and a screenplay under my belt, I may seem like someone who knows what they’re doing, even though 80 percent of the time I’m just winging it, and learning something new every day.

The question isn’t easy to answer. I could try to answer it in the same way many authors before me have, offering up: “Find a great agent,” but that wasn’t the case for me. I did find a couple of great publishers, and that is an arduous journey you’ll have to go on too—but you have to write your book first.

I could say, “Write every day,” but truthfully, I don’t, although I work toward my writing and publishing goals every single day, even on weekends. I could say you have to have lots of money to advertise your books and then you can start making money, and “it’s who you know,” but I knew a few “people,” and they didn’t help me write my books or get them published, although they did encourage me (I’m so thankful for that, because now I can say I did it myself). I also didn’t start spending money on advertising my books until eight months ago, and even now, I don’t spend more than half of last month’s earnings on advertising/promotion.

So how do you get published, then? It’s not one straightforward path that will get you published: it’s a million little paths that bend this way and that, and meet together masterfully in the end. You know when someone asks you what you love about your partner/spouse? It’s never just his floppy hair or his brilliant blue eyes. It’s a million little things, mixed together. It’s the same when I write and get my novels published. I take a million little paths that make all the difference between getting it done, and not.

First, write a good book. Then, when you write that story, don’t make it about you. Put your desk in the corner, as Stephen King so eloquently puts it in On Writing, and let the characters lead you. (My desk has been in the same corner of my home office, facing a wall of family photos and quotes that encourage me, for 12 years now. My husband once offered to move it facing out, toward the window, and I thought about King’s quote and refused. I don’t want distractions when I work, and I don’t need to be on display).

Don’t think about money, rankings, what your readers, friends or family are going to think, and although it’s going to happen, try not to think about what’s for lunch or what people are Tweeting about today. It’s not about any of these things, and it’s not about you. If it is, you should stop writing now.

It’s about a story that needs to be told. Don’t just write what you think will sell; write what your heart wants to write. You also don’t have to write what you know. You have to write a story that you can’t stop thinking about; the story that wakes you up late at night or early in the morning, and has you driving your family bonkers because you keep telling them about the latest character traits of Pete or Allie or worse, you keep imitating Bad Ass Grandma’s raspy old voice at the dinner table.

Write your story. Don’t give up on it when you’re writing it, don’t give up on it when you’re trying to find a publisher (or going down the rocky road of self publishing it), and don’t give up on it when the reviews come in and someone writes that they don’t know if they liked your book, or wasted time reading it.

Get started, keep going, and then, don’t give up. Those are three of a million little paths that will get you there.

🙂 Heather



  1. Joseph Hesch says:

    You’ve been a primary inspiration to me since we first “met.” Always will be, too. And, as you know, I just write…and write…and write. And, someday soon, I’ll put the stories I wanted to hear, but had to write first, in a clutch between covers and share them…one way or another. And you’ll still be my inspiration with all that heart and energy, guts and talent. Best always, Heath ~ J

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  2. Excellent post, Heather. You’re always so honest and forthright while still remaining positive for those who are admiring your shiny footsteps. My experience is that there’s a lot of shame in the writing sector – a lot of what feels like secrets – a lot of “don’t talk about it” stuff. I don’t think it’s because the sector or writers are inherently sneaky, I think that writers often feel “guilty” about success (I can’t boast to other writers about it!) and also, guilty about not finding “success” (Everyone else is doing so much better than I am!). It’s great to hear from someone who is building her career and sharing the story–and her stories/poems/screenplays etc along the way. Keep up the sparkling!


    • I can’t speak for those writers in academic circles (is it still ‘publish or perish’? ) but for professional writers trying to make a living, and not quite realizing that, it can
      be embarrassing, yes. I just want to get the truth out there. I figure in 20 or so years I may (hopefully!) forget the real struggle I went through to reach success,
      so I’m keeping a record of it as I make my way. I try not to get too embarrassed by my fumbles along the way (like the image on this blog had a typo on it at first) because
      they make me human, and, like the characters I write, always learning. Thanks so much for reading and commenting Christine!


  3. Cytopoetics says:

    Thank you Heather – I needed the tips and the reminders. I think I’m at about 300,000 little paths and it’s really getting tough. You’ve always been about your work and getting your stuff done, while not worrying too much about what others think or feel. You’re an inspiration, and I’m proud to know you.

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  4. Love this, Heather. Especially as I’m dealing with some issues of my own right now and trying to get to grips with the fact I don’t write every day! I’m coming out of hibernation, and it’s posts like these that give us inspiration and the motivation we need to get back in the saddle and crack on.

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